A Guided Social Experience
An evening where strangers help each other remember what connection feels like.
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Why This Exists
We stand in public spaces together and stay separate.
We attend gatherings and speak politely.
We leave having met people, but not having been felt.
Public life has become efficient, but not human.
This experience gently interrupts that pattern.
By sharing something slightly unfamiliar together, conversation and being together stops being effort and happening naturally.
What This Is
This is a guided shared experience.
During the evening you and a small group of strangers will participate in a few simple structured activities together led by Cody McGraw.
They require no special skill.
The purpose is not to entertain you or tell you how to be.
The purpose is to briefly step outside the normal patterns we use in everyday social life, where we introduce ourselves, explain what we do, and manage impressions.
When those patterns soften, something else becomes possible. People stop trying to interact correctly and start interacting honestly.
What to Expect
You will be guided through a series of simple shared activities, sometimes as a group and sometimes in pairs.
They require no special skill, only a willingness to try.
Some moments may feel unfamiliar at first. That is part of the experience.
The evening gently invites you to step outside our usual social habits, where we often stay polite, careful, and predictable.
After certain activities, I may ask a reflective question about what the moment brought to mind. You are always free to share as much or as little as you wish.
I will always demonstrate first so you understand what is being asked. You can move slowly and at your own pace.
The point is not immediate comfort, but discovering how discomfort softens when a group enters it together.
Afterward, conversation changes because you shared something first.
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What Tends To Happen
People arrive wondering what this will be.
During the experience, something subtle changes.
You stop monitoring yourself.
You stop planning what to say next.
You begin noticing other people more clearly.
And afterward, conversation or just being together feels less like effort and more like presence.
Often the most meaningful part is not a specific discussion.
It is the feeling of having been somewhere together with people you had just met.
Why This Feels Different
You are not paying for conversation.
You are entering a carefully guided shared experience led by a facilitator who creates conditions where social defenses can relax.
When people participate in something together, even something small, the brain stops categorizing others as strangers.
After that, conversation becomes natural.
What surprises many participants is this:
It isn’t just about talking.
It’s about the feeling that appears when a group of people shares a moment and realizes they are allowed to be human around each other.
Safety
You will never be put on the spot.
no one is required to share personal stories
you may pass or simply listen at any time
reflection is invited, never demanded
you will always see an example before being asked to try
Cody will guide the entire experience
Some moments may feel a little outside your routine. That’s part of the design.
You are not expected to do anything perfectly.
Curiosity matters more than confidence.
You are welcome to be quiet.
You are welcome to take your time.
Practical Details
90 minutes
7 participants max
2–3 evenings per week
Valencia, Spain
English
Shared Contributing Pricing
This experience uses a shared contribution model so people from different circumstances can sit in the same room.
Choose the option that best reflects your current ability to contribute. No explanation is ever required.
Supported Seat — €15 For students, travelers, newcomers, or anyone where cost is a real consideration at the moment.
Standard Seat — €20 For those with stable income who can comfortably cover the cost of their place.
Patron Seat — €30 For those with greater financial flexibility who would like to support the space and make supported seats possible for others.
Everyone receives the exact same experience. Your choice simply helps balance access and sustainability.
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A Guided Social Experience
You may not remember every word spoken that evening.
You will likely remember a moment.
For a short time, you stepped outside your usual roles, your introductions, and the need to say the right thing.
You shared something simple with people you had just met.
After that, conversation came more easily, not because you tried harder, but because you had been somewhere together first.
And sometimes that is enough to remember what connection actually feels like.